Warm Cozy Memories
My father went into memory
care last year. I wanted to send something with him that was familiar to
the home and would make him feel cozy. We
had an old electric blanket that had long since lost the adaptor cords, but it
was so well made and insulated, we still used it as an additional internal
layer in the winter. It was blue, which
is my favorite color.
You know I love analogies and describing my relationships
with inanimate objects. I had deep childhood
memories tied to this blanket. I had
never really thought about the connection until the blanket turned up missing
from my father’s belongings. We had some
rude awakenings about facilities and elderly , and additionally memory care. A lot of our expectations had to be adjusted. That is a different story for another day.
You don’t really appreciate things until you loose
them. When I realized that the blanket
was not likely to be recovered, I think a part of me mourned. It felt like a lot of memories were just
erased.
Fast forward to this summer.
My kid announces that he will be attending university in a cold climate
location. Obviously that was met with
mixed emotion. Excitement and Immediate
mommy preparation mode. One of the
things on my prep list was an electric blanket.
So with great pleasure I’d like to announce, we are welcoming a new electric
blanket to our family, for a new generation.
I don’t know if my kids will attach meaning and memories to
these blankets, but maybe I’ll get to transfer a few.
Wishing you all the abundance and comforts this life can
bring.
-Bliss
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