Share it

 

Nobody Knows, and untold people will care, but you must share it.  Often times we think that we are alone in our experiences, our thoughts, or struggles. We are not alone, but we are unaware of this fact because we don’t share. Now there are several powerful applications to this fact. I’ll share 2 with you.

Writing it down means little until you share it.

I’ve been writing all my life.  One day I always aspired to be a best selling book author. I put off publishing for 20 million reasons. To date, I still have not written or published what is truly in my heart to share.

After a series of eye opening events, I realized that I was not guaranteed “a tomorrow”, and that I’d better get to sharing like I understood that fact. It liberated me to write more often, more passionately, and to eventually publish my first book.  Knowing that I had so much more to share, I created a publishing company not only for my works, but to help others find and share their stories and passions.

My first book was a no brainer culmination of how I consult borrowers everyday.  I was mortgage loan officer by trade, and I can talk mortgages in my sleep.  It took me about 9 weeks to write the book and 9 months to rough edit it. It eventually came down to do or die. 

I know for me, I get caught up in comparison and the idea of perfectionism.  Its never going to be as perfect as some think it should, or maybe as you think it should.  That’s not the point.  The point was always to share it and for it to make a positive impact in someone’s life. So I released it.

When I published my book, several positive things happened.  People that I never knew cared about me, showed up and supported me by promoting and purchasing my book.  People started expressing how they wanted to write and publish as well. It became a great marketing tool in my lending business. It saved me so much time in my business everyday because I had created a reference book. Last but certainly not least, it pays royalties.

I was winning!  I wrote and published 3 additional  books within two years.  The best is yet to come. Had I not published, the world would never know.  Most importantly, neither would I.

 

This Blog was caught up in RED duct tape. 

Maybe for me, I was undecided on how much to share, and how to frame/package it.  Sharing always comes with the slight risk of vulnerability, and exposure. Write the version of your life that you  are comfortable with sharing, and publish it.  This doesn’t have to be a blog, but you should allow people to get to know the REAL you. Maybe in layers. 😊  For some that’s a little, for others, it’s a lot.  People will always create a narrative about you, give them the proper language.

I like to write.  The thing about liking something is that the feeling usually changes when you “gotta” do it versus getting to or choosing to do it.  It becomes a job.  I very much so believe in manifestation and have purposed my life to be a “soft life” full of a perpetual  sustained existence.  Money comes to me easily and effortlessly because I exist.  This has been an entire new dimension for me to accept,  explore, and receive. The universe is vast abundant, and favors me; and I’m utterly grateful. This does require simplicity, divine intelligence, and disciplines.

So in my creation of this existence, I must be careful with congruency.  Does what I’m “pursuing/doing” CREATE the arrival of what I’ve requested?  For example, I don’t want to personally do heavy lifting, but I can own companies where others get paid to do heavy lifting.

Today, I’m not quitting my day gig, or jumping ship on any money making assets that are managed. I am expecting to physically and emotionally do less, and receive MORE.   What I’m saying is that I’m exploring  more opportunities that attract acceptance and provisions solely upon my existence and intellectual properties. Now I know what you’re thinking.  Its not magic. This requires strategies and systems. You’re right. However, accessing those strategies and systems that are congruent with me, is a little easier said… quickly manifested, but a little slower realized.

So I started this blog years ago.  It was a beautiful idea.  Then it became a series of thoughts.  Then it became a formulated strategy around my brand.  Then I started writing.  I wrote for months, and guess what, I’ve finally released it.

Now, you would know so much less about my experience if I didn’t share this blog. I’m sure you’d be fine without it.  But my life would not be as fine as it has become since the release of this blog. Outside of monetary benefits, it has allowed me to do what my souls does effortlessly. This is priceless.

Making it all fit into my marketing strategy is a different task, but it all comes clean in the wash!  I get to do this small thing towards my personal freedoms.  I gotta make it benefit myself and others. I choose to allow it to change my life, and hopefully others for the better.  None of this would have happened for me, had I not published it.

 

Nobody knows what you are truly thinking until you confirm or reveal it.  Each and every one of us has been given talents and gifts to share with the world. Some of us write, lend, and express joy.  Others do other things. No matter who we are, we don’t learn how much others care about our interest, experiences, or even pain, until we share it.

Untold people feel a similar way.  We discover we are not alone. In fact, we could be in great supported company.  We will never know until we form the courage to share.

If there is something in your heart to heal, to become, to explore, or create, find a trusted reliable safe space and share it. Maybe that is prioritizing your mental health and going to therapy.  Maybe that is learning a new skill.  Maybe that is traveling.  Maybe that is publishing your own thoughts.  Maybe its starting a new business.  Whatever is in your heart, and bubbling in your soul, let it out.  Share it.

 

Abundance Always.